THIS SITE IS INTENDED FOR PARENTS AND PROFESSIONALS...

...to help them better meet the needs of young people growing up with a loved one experiencing mental health difficulties. This could be a mother, a father, a sister, a brother, or any other person in their immediate circle.

Using this site does not necessarily require a diagnosis. We use the term "mental health disorders" because, for the person affected and their family, the period when the first symptoms appear is unsettling. It often takes time to understand the nature of the disorder, accept it, and commit to treatment. During this time, children or teenagers are present, growing up and developing within this challenging life situation.

The chameleon is an extraordinary little animal that takes on the color of its surroundings to hide, adapt, and remain as inconspicuous as possible. This is often what Young People with Disabilities do, and it's their way of helping, which we call "helping by self-effacement." But sometimes it's important for an adult to tell them that it's too much, and that they also need to open themselves up to other things.

WORDS FROM FORMER CLOSE GUARDIANS

Florian and Muriel both grew up with a parent suffering from a severe mental illness. Together, and drawing on their experiences, they founded the Child-Carer Association in Switzerland. Here, they answer the question, "What, at some point in your life, helped you and allowed you to feel better?"

(Excerpt from the webinar, Astrame, 29/10/2024)

The term "young carer" is increasingly used. It defines "a child or adolescent who provides significant and regular support to a family member or household member" (American Association for Caregiving Youth, 2012). The young people we meet rarely identify with the term "young carer." Yet, the emotional support they provide to their loved ones and their families, and their efforts to adapt so as not to burden the situation, are often very important.

We prefer the term "Young People Close to" which encompasses all young people involved in a life situation with a loved one suffering from a mental disorder, regardless of their age and whether their involvement is visible or discreet.

We believe that children, adolescents, and young adults should not have to compensate for the weaknesses of our healthcare systems, nor should they be pressured to take on roles that should be filled by adults. They can offer help if they wish, if they are able, and at their own pace, but above all, they must be able to find help when they need it.

YOUNG CAREGIVERS?

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